They cant marry because they do not belive in mara

you can marry lidya

had a few laughs bout’ yer situation… if you haven’t pushed thru with the ceremonies, you can still pursue other NPCs… have three pending relationship with three NPCs meself, one accidental proposition ta an ape in Riften(blacksmith)gives me the creeps… the guy’s actually bigger,hairier & filthier than me.. LOL

yep… gay marriages is allowed in skyrim!!!

Yes. My character is female and I married the sister of the dude in the trading post in Riverwood. First try, actually… already did their quest in the very beginning of the game, clearing out Bleak Falls Barrow, and so as soon as she saw I was wearing the Amulet, I latched my sexy little claws into her. 😉

She may have run off with then neighbor. Lol. Nah, you just hit another one of the games many glitches.

I had a similar thing happen to me. Turns out, I was in the last stage of being a Vampire, which means they attack you on sight. If you kill anyone while in the last stage of a vampire, you won’t get a bounty–but it is a real pain in the butt to cure it. What I had to do was go to a friendly territory (in my case, the College of Winterhold), hire someone to work with me, command them to go to sleep, then bite them in the neck (it will give you stage 3 vampirism which makes it so people don’t attack you on sight)–then you have to go to an inn and ask the innkeeper about rumors–they will tell you about this dude who can cure you of vampirism–then you have to do this ritual. Or you can just keep biting your friend (Vampirism offers bonuses at night time–but it cripples you during the day)